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OUR FOREFATHERS WERE HAPPIER THAN WE ARE BY ARIYE EBILABO

Happiness is a feeling of pleasure, contentment or joy. To be happier than someone is to possess’ joy or enough subtle pleasure and contentment more than another person. Some people might think, how was our forefather happier than we are? Well, there are a lot of reasons to enlighten you that they, in fact, happier than we are.
Realistic satisfaction:  Our forefathers live a simple happy life where they are satisfied with what they got, they live a reality, unlike us where we photoshop and airbrush and create expectations for ourselves which are virtual and we try hard to convince ourselves. Until we face the reality we will not know that our happiness scale is not even zero quarter of our expectation scale, and that is, we are never satisfied, that’s why we’re not happy and yet we continue feeding ourselves with virtual expectations, with lies. We don’t face the reality of life. That’s the difference between us and our forefathers.
Spending time with family: They knew the real meaning of spending time with family members. They give much time to their family and friends rather than wasting it on the internet and social media. They had tasted the real taste of childhood. Most of us don’t know simple games we ought to know at our age. We don’t have a childhood. We enjoy playing stupid games at each other. In those days, everyone had time for each other’s but now selfishness has rooted itself in our society.
Depression cases. Depression has indicated us more among the recent generations than among our forefathers. Many studies show this. Our forefathers defined happiness as contentment and fulfillment from long relationships. Our generation defined happiness with events of pleasure. Our forefathers were happier than us. In today generation, children are given loads of homework, some kids spend a lot of time on gadgets, social media, hanging out friends than their families, they do not have time to spend their children. Our generation does not care about others they are so self-centered. We do not live a life of happiness, we only care about earning money. Earning money is pointless and worthless if we are not happy. Happiness in our lives is very essential or important as it reflects our lives in many ways. ‘’Happy people live longer!’’ 
Adulterated food: We are not happier than our forefathers because we are now feeding on adulterated food. We now have adulterated food everywhere were as in those days, people have fresh food to eat which enable them to live longer than this correct generation.
 Air pollution: We lack fresh air to inhale due to carbon (IV) oxide in the atmosphere whereas in those days they had good air and no sign of air pollution.  We are living in a materialistic and dangerous earth, but our forefathers lived on sound earth. Today advancement has given rise to global warming, and today people think that they are happier but our spirits know that we are not because all means of technology have indirectly affected our lives in bad ways. For instance, diseases due to radiation from radio waves and ultra-violet rays from the sun that is penetrating our atmosphere due to man’s activities that causes skin cancer, sunburns which could also cause meningitis. In the days of our forefathers, none of these happened.   Most people would say we are better because we could cure the disease. But I want you to know that prevention is better than cure. Also, our forefathers didn’t have such disease that we have. Haven’t you noticed that it was the advancement of technology and the change of belief that natural disasters and such disease started unfolding gradually? In the days of our forefathers, they didn’t have serious diseases, their disease were just minor injuries which could be easily cured by medicinal herbs.
Economic Recession: Nevertheless, our forefathers never faced an economic recession. In our present time, we face tremendous economic problems. Today the economy is good, tomorrow is bad. A few years ago, we were in economic recession because of our present government. In the days of our forefathers, they were happy without selfish government. They live there simple life on their own. Though they had few leaders who governed them, they didn’t have problems with government and didn’t lack anything. Unlike us, today bag of rice will increase, tomorrow it will decrease, and our economy is so bad to the point that our cafeteria also increases their price, Limca bottle of #5 is now #80, sweets that were #1 is now #20. In the days of our forefathers' things were not like this.
Corruption: Everyone seemed equal but they still respected people of authority like king and rulers and everything still went smooth and good. There were low cases of theft and arm robbery as there were strict rules and regulations guiding them. There was nothing like high class, low class or middle class. They were happy with their kind of life that they were living. Unlike us, we can never be satisfied with anything.  There was nothing like Muslim or Christian. They had focus and straightforward. Moreover, don’t forget the fact that there were low rate or probably no corruption in their time. We still want more. Also we need to get more important fact that they were united. There were no diversity.  They were not that poor. Poor people were still regarded in the society. They love each other. Old people spend most of their nights to tell folktale with their children. But now most grandparents of this generation don’t do that. Everyone loves each other. We care for the person right next to us and were not bias.
Death: I acknowledge the fact of the modern civilization that we have through science and technology giving human many things to enjoy that are our forefathers had no access to, such as electricity and it's by-product. But the same civilization has created huge environmental degradation in the form of industrial wastes littering the land, air, and sea as pollution which in turn have led to a large number of death.
The world health organization said on Tuesday, September 27, 2016. That 92% of the world population breath are containing pollutant exceeding WHO limits, resulting in the huge number of death across the world. 

💚I love this life we are in.

Life is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship. It's not how we care in the beginning, but how much we care till the very end.

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Some people always throw stones in your path. It depends on what you make with them; a Wall or a Bridge? - Remember you are the architect of your life.

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Search for a good heart, but don't search for a beautiful face, coz beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful.

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It’s not important to hold all the good cards in life, but it’s important how well you play with the cards you hold.

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Often when we lose all hope & think this is the end, remember God and pray, it’s just a bend, not the end.' -

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Have faith and have a successful life. One of the basic differences between God and humans is, God gives and forgives. But the human gets and forgets. Be thankful in life...

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If u think it is your alarm clock that woke you up this morning, try putting it beside a dead body and you will realise that it is the Grace of God that woke you up. 

*LESSONS ON MARRIAGE*

1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse’s weakness, you can’t get the best out of his/her strength.

2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*

No one is an angel, therefore, avoid digging one’s past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can’t be changed. So focus on the present and the future!

3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT’S OWN CHALLENGES*

Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shining marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS*

Don’t compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR*

When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Rumours,  Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, winning, nagging, PRIDE,  Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE*

There is no ready made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a MOTOR CAR with a gear oil, gear box, etc If these parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down somewhere along the road and expose the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. – Many of us are careless about our marriage… Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.

7. *GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE*

God gives you, her or him in form of raw materials in order for you to mold what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hour but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.

8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK*

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes a little fat after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at long last.

9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT*

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce, though it’s permitted only in extreme cases.

10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY*

Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdrawn. If you don’t deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.

*May God grant us the grace and wisdom to succeed in it. Amen!!

Beware!!!
a Facebook user (Ike Paulcharia) has raised a warning alarm to the general public notifying everyone on the fraudulent act of some individual regarding the use of ATM and helping a friend or a stranger to receive cash and either send or receive at the ATM gallery.  below is her post
''Last Friday, I ordered food from my food vendor, but a different guy delivered it. I asked what happened to the guy that usually serves me food, and was told that he was arrested by the police.
Yesterday, I ordered again, and the arrested guy brought the food. I asked him why he was arrested, and the story below will shock you.
He was at the ATM last weekend to withdraw some money. After withdrawing and about to leave, a man whom I met in the ATM stand that evening walked up to me and complained about how his bank was not available and he needed money urgently to settle bills.
In fact, he told me that his car knocked someone down and he needs money to pay the hospital bills.
He asked if he could transfer the sum of N90 thousand Naira to my account so I could help him withdraw with my card. After considering what hospitals do to patients that have no money to deposit before treatment, I gave him my account number and he transferred the money and I withdraw it with my card. He thanked me profusely and we departed.
A few days later, I got a call from my bank to come and fill a form. When I got to the bank, I was asked to sit and a BVN Re-registration form was given to me. After some minutes, some policemen came and I was arrested for phone theft and fraud6ulent transfer and withdrawal of funds.
To cut a sad story short, the man I helped at the ATM stole someone's phone, hacked his account and transferred to unsuspecting nine(9) persons in different ATM machines across Imo state
We all helped him withdraw close to 1m that day!
I was made to pay the 90 thousand naira he sent to my account, hence my release from police custody.''
Please learn from this story

PRESIDENT BUHARI vs NIGERIAN YOUTH (a must-read  by  every intelligent  youth )

Speaking at the Common Wealth Business Forum in Westminster on April 18, 2018, Buhari said :

"Nigerian youths are lazy, uneducated; and don't like to do any work because they believe their country is an oil-rich  nation, thus always wanting  free oil money "

NIGERIAN YOUTH : Sir, you are absolutely correct. One of the lazy Nigerian youths who is enjoying free oil money had an accident with the power bike he bought with free oil money not too long ago, and he was flown abroad for treatment with free oil money, then he hired a jet with free oil money from London to Abuja after his treatment.

Sir, we Nigerian Youth completely agree with you that the Nigerian youths are lazy and uneducated and always wanting free oil money. Their role models are in Aso Rock enjoying free oil money without even solving any security or economic problem for the country. When they are ill, they fly abroad for medical vacation with free oil money.

Why would anyone disagree with you that the Nigerian youths are uneducated? It's very obvious. That's why they don't even know their rights !! Some of them ignorantly  keep defending your ineptitude !!!

Sir, at 19 years of age, you left secondary school to join the Nigerian Army. At age 21, you were commissioned a second lieutenant and appointed Platoon Commander of the Second Infantry Battalion in Abeokuta, Nigeria. Where can our youths get such opportunity today ?

You enjoyed free education as a young man, but today the youths are deprived of basic education. You were a governor, a petroleum commissioner and a Head of State as a youth; but today, youths are on social media defending your failures !

Honestly, sir, we agree with you that the Nigerian youths are lazy. That's why you ruled Nigeria as a youth and have also grabbed the job as an old man. The youths are too ignorant to even know the implication of this your comment, because some indolent ones would still rationalize it as an "ordinary" comment, forgetting that 'out of the abundance of the mind, the mouth speaks'. They don't even know that you and your fellow old men are presently doing the jobs that  the youths should,  ordinarily, be doing !

Sir, the most interesting aspect of this your "truth" is that you said it in a country where their government provides basic infrastructures, almost free education, free WiFi, free health care, almost free investment loans for their youths. While, in your own country, these lazy and uneducated youths, provide their own electricity, schools, security, roads, healthcare etc.. Yet, the indolent youths use their "free oil money" to buy mobile data to defend your ineptitude.

Sir, let us remind you that we have seen so many Nigerian youths who were almost useless in Nigeria, but when they cross over to the western world, they suddenly begin to excel in different fields of endeavor. What do you think is responsible for their positive output in the foreign land? Your guess is as good as ours.  Sir- the difference is not far-fetched : A responsible government usually plan for their youths and create enabling environment for the youths to be able to create wealth and contribute to National development. Can we say the same of your own government ? Certainly Not !  Instead, we have lazy, uneducated youths who would hang on telecommunication masts and electric cables to shout "SAI BABA"  whenever  you visit their states. SHAME ! We only wish they knew better.

Finally, sir, let us ask you this :  Apart from the free oil money this country has been paying you since your days as a youth till date, what have you been able to create  for yourself ? Do you have thriving businesses that are providing employment for the Nigerian youths? Have you invented anything on your own? Sir, you can now see that this free oil money is what has kept you going for over 50 years. Perhaps this laziness is not limited to the youths alone. We guess some 75-year-old incompetent presidents are also lazy and love free oil money; and  that's why they want to remain in power till they are 80 years old. If we take away the free oil money this country has  been paying you so that you then appraise your life, are you sure you will have any worth, sir?

We leave you to your conscience, Sir.

But, we hope that all intelligent Nigerian youths will realise that you are now using their time, after you had long-ago  used your own time.

We hope that all intelligent Nigerian youths will stop being "lazy" and  join hands,  to take charge of their own destiny.

We equally hope that Nigerian youths will get their Permanent Voter's Card ready, and give you appropriate response in 2019.

.......courtesy :

          NATIONAL  ASSOCIATION OF  DISADVANTAGED & OPPRESSED NIGERIAN  YOUTHS ( NADONY )

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HOW CAN I BE A CHILD OF GOD?

Jesus said in the book of John 3:3 Verily I say unto you, except a man be born again he cannot see the kingdom of God. Nicodemus said unto Him. ‘’how can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother’s womb and be born?


WHAT IS BORN AGAIN?

To be born again is not to accept a new religion but it is to accept a new identity in Christ Jesus. It is to become entirely new in the hand of the Lord your old record of sin and iniquity will be flushed out by the blood of Jesus so that the new you will emerge in. ‘’ therefore, if anyone is in Christ Jesus, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” (2 Cor. 5:17). By receiving Jesus into your life, an overflowing love Jesus came and took your place in death, He pays the full penalty for your sins. If you receive Jesus into your life you receive a new identity as a child of God. As it is written in the book of John 1: 12 “but as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name. whom you believe determines who you become, when you believe in Jesus you are joined with the Spirit of Jesus, you have a new and strong identity with God. ‘’ but he who is joined to the Lord is one Spirit with Him.” 1 Cor. 6: 16


IT IS TIME TO BE BORN AGAIN

Recognize that you cannot save yourself, therefore ask Jesus to save you and believe with all your heart, confess your sins and receive forgiveness. God said He is willing to forgive you if you confess and forsake those sins.


SAY THIS PRAYER WITH FAITH

Lord Jesus, I accept you as my Lord and saviour, come into my life and be the Lord of my life. I forsake all my sins and help me not to go back to them again in Jesus’ name. amen.
If you have said this prayer, it means that you have believed in Jesus therefore, do not walk by your feelings but by faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. This can change your entire life for good. 





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```At the point of death, a man, Tom Smith, called his children and he advised them to follow his footsteps so that they can have peace of mind in all that they do..

His daughter, Sara, said,
"Daddy, its unfortunate you are dying without a penny in your bank..
Other fathers' that you tag as being corrupt, thieves of public funds left houses and properties for their children; even this house we live in is a rented apartment..
Sorry, I can't emulate you, just go, let's chart our own course..

Few moments later, their father gave up the spirit..

Three years later, Sara went for an interview in a multinational company..
At interview the Chairman of the committee asked,
"Which Smith are you..??"

Sara replied,
"I am Sara Smith. My Dad Tom Smith is now late.."

Chairman cuts in,
"O my God, you are Tom Smith's daughter..?"

He turned to the  other members and said,
"This Smith man was the one that signed my membership form into the Institute of Administrators and his recommendation earned me where I am today. He did all these free. I didn't even know his address, he never knew me. He just did it for me.."
He turned to Sara,
"I have no questions for you, consider yourself as having gotten this job, come tomorrow, your letter will be waiting for you.."

Sara Smith became the Corporate Affairs Manager of the company with two Cars with Drivers, A duplex attached to the office, and a salary of £3 000 per month excluding allowances and other costs..

After two years of working in the company, the MD of the company came from America to announce his intention to resign and needed a replacement. A personality with high integrity was sought after, again the company's Consultant nominated Sara Smith..

In an interview, she was asked the secret of her success,,

With tears, she replied, "My Daddy paved these ways for me. It was after he died that I knew that he was financially poor but stinkingly rich in integrity, discipline and honesty".

She was asked again, why she is weeping since she is no longer a kid as to miss her dad still after a long time..

She replied, "At the point of death, I insulted my dad for being an honest man of integrity. I hope he will forgive me in his grave now. I didn't work for all these, he did it for me to just walk in".

So, finally she was asked, "Will you follow your father's foot steps as he requested ?"

And her simple answer was, "l now adore the man, I have a big picture of him in my living room and at the entrance of my house. He deserves whatever I have after God".

Are you like Tom Smith..?
It pays to build a name, the reward doesn't come quickly but it will come however long it may take and it lasts longer..

Integrity, discipline, self control and fear of God makes a man wealthy, not the fat bank account..

Leave a good heritage for your children..


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